It was a cold and windy day in March when I approached Shane.
He was sitting on the ground with his back against the pedestrian signal pole on King & Mary. I could tell that he was freezing and he was also shedding a few tears. You could tell he was having a bad day. I gave him a hug because I could tell that he could really use one.
There was a General’s game happening at the Tribute’s Centre with lots of foot traffic surrounding the area.
Not one single person in sight acknowledged Shane. People were hitting the pedestrian signal button right above his head.
This deeply angered me. When I see someone who needs help, no questions asked, I’m there to provide support and offer any help that I can. I could not believe our faith in humanity. It was sickening to witness not a single soul acknowledged Shane, let alone while they were pressing a button right above his head.
Luckily, many people on the streets look out for each other. Pictured in the second slide is Mike. While chatting with Shane, Mike came over and checked in with him. Mike said “Go to Tim Hortons with that money(the money I gave to Shane for participating), grab yourself a coffee and stay in there for a while and get warm please”.
This was very comforting to witness. People on the streets look out for each other because they understand on a personal level what it feels like to not have anyone who they can call on for support.
From the interaction with Shane and all the people who walked right by and ignored him is very concerning for humanity. This issue needs to change.
When you are out and about and you see someone on the streets, don’t feel scared to go up and say hello. Have a chat. Get to know them. Many are often ignored and a conversation could lighten their mood. To know that someone is listening can really leave a positive impact.
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